At a certain age (before 10), I dreamt of being an astronaut. At age 12, I wanted to be an accountant (my father and my brother are one by profession and education – see the two sweet souls again 😁). At age 15, I wanted to carry out geographical explorations. And then at age 16, I paused on having a dream🤣, but I definitely wanted to travel the world.
I’m writing from Lagos, Nigeria. I haven’t been outside South West Nigeria. But my dreams are still valid😁💙 no matter how many refinements – some dreams have to be refined to fit with your identity, they go through, and how long they take.
I am writing today, it was a dream that was refined😁. A dear friend who is more or less family and a big brother Alo Ayotomide tried to make me do this about two years ago. But I wouldn’t listen and now my journey has brought me here 😁. However, I’m thankful that he often said these words to me: “I’m proud of you”. There were times I felt I wasn’t doing the right thing or I was supposed to be doing something entirely different. But he always said the words “I’m proud of you”. And for the few times, he has had the opportunity to listen to my plans and dreams, he still says those words. Now, I commit to repeating those words to my circle. I do this to make them know that in the pursuit of their dreams and life goals, no matter how many times they fall and rise, take turns and curves, I’m proud of them. Because, the beauty and essence of any dream is in the journey to fulfilling it.
This is not a lengthy perspective. I just wanted to encourage you that whatever your dreams are, and from whatever part of the world you are reading this from “your dreams are valid”. The journey to becoming, is the most beautiful of all. So while you worry, sweat it out, plan, and pray it through, I’m proud of you for committing to your journey. More importantly, do not forget to live life whilst you are at it.
P S: Viva La Vida
Perspectives 
I never knew you wanted to he a writer but I know you could write very that’s why I use to shelve my letters for you to handle sometimes and other times we worked on our CEO’s letters together.
Well done dear and keep soaring
I’m also genuinely proud of you.
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Dear Mrs Ima, well words were always my forte but writing became refined 😁
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Thank you for your constant support, encouragement, and the opportunities you gave me to be better. I’m proud of you more momma
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Yea!!!!
Your dreams are valid.
Super Valid sef!!!
Great perspective again
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Dear Dammytj. Thank you 💜. I’m proud of you
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So profound and super inspiring….
You rock girl and I am so proud of you.
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Yoooo Nihin. I’m super proud of you. Thank you 🥰
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Nice post as always.
More inspiration dear
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Awww, thank you dear Oluwaseun. Amen
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Thanks for this. It’s so encouraging!
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Dear Jesutimileyin, you are welcome
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Dear Tumilara, thank you for your constant support. I’m proud of you too.
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Beautiful piece tolu
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Hello Kazesings, thank you.
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“Thank you Tolulope Abimbola”
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Always welcome and thank you too Toba
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I’m proud of you. Well done!
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Hello Olayinka, thank you. Cheering you on!!!
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Mama, we made it! LOL!
This is a lovely piece Tolulope. You got me in my feelings. I’m glad to see the young woman you’re becoming. Your vibes are always beautiful.
And finally, I’m proud of you always.
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Yassss, we made it fam. Aww, I’m glad I did. Thank you for the constant support and yessssss I’m proud of you too fam
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Such a refreshing and encouraging post……..Welldone Tolu! Proud of you always…..
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